Period. but we didnt have sex, and I also dont think that was leading him on. You dropped your purse.. One does not use, /'ysr/ is how it's pronounced. The hardest lesson I have learned is to look someone in the eyes when they disrespect me, however, not all individuals know they are being disrespectful. Its a natural, normal progression that really doesnt raise red flags in terms of general behavior. September 5, 2017, 12:10 pm. No, it dosent mean shes afraid of intimacy (a grown up way of calling her a prude, same concept different and more sophisticated terms thats all ). Obviously, there is nothing about me that would justify this personal and romantic pursuit, so he must be some sort of weirdo. October 18, 2019, 8:45 am. *slap* *slap* i never said i was a nice guy. When expanded it provides a list of search options that will switch the search inputs to match the current selection. The more it is attempted to be demolished by a "PC" or "Woke" mentality it isn't stuck the a negative spiral of logic that it encapsulates. Being addressed as sir from the time you're 18 is entirely different from a complete stranger using a particular word to addresss you because they've decided you are older, or old. I hung up after they remained clueless when I said(a few times) I wasn't a "Sir" but female. English Language & Usage Stack Exchange is a question and answer site for linguists, etymologists, and serious English language enthusiasts. I actually have no idea if or how often it's been performed/quoted so itmightnot be a source as much as evidence that the phrase had already been in use., Knowing the potential sources actually makes things more confusing. Woah, diablo is not a rapist! You're in People love the sound of their own name. And, while originating as a polite affirmation, yes maamalso evolved into a rude remark. Used many times here at AW as an example is eliminating the confusion between: September 5, 2017, 10:47 am. The fact that it came from a play (or even a novel) never occurred to anybody! (As for the alternate theory, MacLeod says shes never seen Burkes Law. Being intimate? BTW, Talking using Sir/Madam words does not the only way to show respect. Yes maam is a polite way of affirming something an older or superior woman has said, often used to show sass or excitement in response to something more generally. Unfortunately, it can be insulting to many people and so I want to challenge you change how you address people. September 5, 2017, 12:44 pm. Agree to disagree, and thats not what I said. . Sick and tired of people being offended for absolutely no reason at all. I mean, that is super-psycho stalker creepy. Theres a HUGE difference between feeling that someones giving you signs that they want to have sex, and pressuring or forcing someone into it. I think that theres a perception from some women, that if a guy wants to have sex early, that theyre only interested in a hookup and not a relationship. What is the movie on Netflix called love? In private? Ackermann Function without Recursion or Stack. I dunno. to suggest that making out with someone without the intent to have sex is leading him on in a pretty serious way. Yep, get rid of the "Sir/Ma'am" bit. we talked about our old high school and joked about some of the old highschool gossip scandals( we both went to a small school)and then at the end was the context of when she said "Sir", --ME:(Reference to a prank i pulled on a mutual friend) --HER: hahahaha that's awesome --HER: That's the evilest thing i could imagine. What do either of these things have to do with his ex? Taylor Said it sounded like something rapists have said. UPDATE: Just to let you know: he did text me yesterday saying he enjoyed the date and he didnt bring anything up about what I wrote to you. But I can totally see how someone whos not used to guys being this forward could be thrown by it. Going back to someones house doesnt always mean sex Id venture to say dont even think thats what he means. Diablo he was wrong. But sometimes people dont. 'pa pdd chac-sb tc-bd bw hbr-20 hbss lpt-25' : 'hdn'">. LisforLeslie You are both in your late 20s, on a second date, enjoying some making out, which you seemingly are actively engaging in and not stopping, and when the guy asks if youd like to go back to his place, you think thats a red flag? I have such a low opinion of myself that I feel the need to attribute his interest in me to some serious deficiency in him, and I want you to help me figure out what it is, since he seems so nice. Are you just looking for something to not like? I dont know how you got the idea that Maam is not also age neutral. It may be a sign of incompatibility though. That is, it's important that one. The worldwide phenomenon comes to life in Fifty Shades of Grey, starring Dakota Johnson and Jamie Dornan in the iconic roles of Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey. I dont plan on reaching out to him although its disappointing since I had fun today. Thanks, I bet you could jump to the moon. Its not nice or respectful. The worldwide phenomenon comes to life in Fifty Shades of Grey, starring Dakota Johnson and Jamie Dornan in the iconic roles of Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey. Making out with a guy is not leading him on. A response of yes maam, apparently, had become so expected of children or inferiors that they came to issue it reflexively, insincerely, or forcibly (e.g., Yes maam, Ill be absolutely sure to get on it right away) uttered under the breath or with an idea. It was definitely a little eerie how the quote seemed familiar to everybody yet nobody could place it. So yes, i was mocking it by also using the quaint expression upstairs outsideys, which i also think should not be used unironically by grown adults. I dont mean to shock you, but sometimes it even happens on a first date. Maybe making out standing up outside was uncomfortable for him and he wanted to make out somewhere more comfortable? October 18, 2019, 6:21 am. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I watched the entire film for this article and at least in the official cut, its not there. When we are not together, we rarely talk unless we send a few short texts here or there to plan to see each other, he never flirts with me through the texts, and sometimes, although he will message me, he will not respond to my replies. I'll call you Mr Johnson. I am 62. Who are Fifty Shades of greys Anastasia and Christian Grey? Thanks for contributing an answer to English Language & Usage Stack Exchange! I mean, Im 31, and I think my patience for making out while standing in a parking lot or next to a lake is fairly limited. Eh, I think the responses to LW1 have been a little harsh. I agree with those who are using Sir/Madam to respect elders. 10/10 would LOL again. Does Cast a Spell make you a spellcaster? Theres also this weird sense of rigid and incomprehensible dating rules. There would be nothing I would want more than when Im old to be wise enough to be called sir.. It still feels like there's an obvious answer out there that everyone's forgetting, says Cicierega. Yes Sir Chief Keef Track 10 on 4NEM Produced by JI (producer) & Stuntman Beatz Release Date December 17, 2021 View All Credits 1 24.5K Yes Sir Lyrics [Verse 1] No sir, no sir, no sir. He took the physical and asked about going further and didnt press after she declined. He just asked if she wanted to take the thing they were doing even further. Maybe he just wanted to continue making out, but doing so in a more private and comfortable locale. Like I said, I think thats minor and Ive pretty much forgotten about it (other than now). LisforLeslie Reading LW1, I forgot she was 28 and thought she was probably a teenager. I thought it was kind of cute, and also a little hmm, but I brushed it off too. I dont know. And yes, I am a virgin. Was it falsified as part of a social experiment, but generic enough to have really appeared in fiction? What is an eloquent word for a disrespectful, impertinent child? Nothing! Change with the times. There were two categories of verbal forms : Regarding the follow-up bid, it appeared that the distribution of (. Climbing Addict n. dear sir. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. I guess I panicked writing that letter. Fifty Shades Darker is not available to stream on Netflix. Another replies: "It doesnt do anything. A man in an unsatisfying marriage recalls the details of an intense past relationship with an ex-girlfriend when he gets word that she may be missing. I dont know how to handle a situation that hasnt happened yet. On our second date, it was going really well and my house was close by, so after we had dinner we mutually decided to go back to my house for him to meet my dog and have a drink on the porch. Its just creepy. Never said I was appalled. Other times, it is seen as the height of good manners. If you ask where its from, people will often throw out answers immediately; The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, and The Simpsons are all popular answers. He told me as he was lying there that he has anxiety and gets nervous around me because he likes me but was feeling like I was too good to be true. North American Used to express emphatic affirmation: 'yessir the food was cheap' I tend to think that it would be, as the whole point of saying yes, sir, in the first place, is to show respect.So it would stand to reason that using the slang version, yessir, that logically it . Yeah, I get that, but I wouldnt bring it up until I was pretty sure I wanted to sleep with him. Its fine if you dont want to have sex, but this guy has not crossed any problematic lines. It is a signal to mature women to have a seat, at the very point in their lives when they're just beginning to flourish. So i got added to a group chat and got her number through that and decided that i'd text her privately. I probably first saw a thread about it circa 2004 or 2005 on the Something Awful forums, says Cicierega. But to clutch your pearls at the mere invitation is a little odd. Maybe you should meet someone at church and just hold hands until you are comfortable. It was nice Talking to you *****. The last guy I dated ended up completely rejecting me and I am so fearful of it happening again this time around, especially because I have already developed feelings for him. or yes mam Check my post history my previous post to this was yet another stultifying proclamation of my enduring 28 years of love , respect and fidelity to my wife, who I have been with exclusively. Its not your job to police the English language, but rather to go with the flow and use your knowledge of it to communicate as effectively as possible with others. Why try to force it along with a tool like that which, honestly, has a lot of potential to deeply upset someone with trauma in their past? Asking for help, clarification, or responding to other answers. Watch your back! Used to express assent: "Do you understand me?" "Yessir!" 1.1. To me, it shows confidence in who I am as well as respect to the other person. Have a fun date . Just let develop in you the feeling. buen seor. The Apocalyptic Butterflies exchange, meanwhile, wasnt discovered by somebody recalling a long-forgotten memory. Kindness is not dead. Assumptions are being made solely on voice alone. I'd never heard of the play in question before finding it, he says. I go on the street and some guy goes, 'Hey, girl.'" In May, ET spoke to Gosling's The Nice Guys co-star, Russell Crowe, who gave his own thoughts on the beloved meme -- which . (As the saying in India, Every Work is Great). That being said I dont agree he thought that. Why was the nose gear of Concorde located so far aft? Ive invited guys over after a few dates or gone to their places instead without any expectations of taking things further. Don't forget to smile :) Leave a Like and a comment if you enjoyed. I havent read all the comments but yeah, LW1, I dont see the big deal at all. Some people are more comfortable moving quickly with the physical intimacy; it doesnt necessarily mean thats all they are after. Subscribe to help grow our com. best man. On that last note then I will not call you sir.. All of these things can create semblances of a broken heart. 6. Thats the beauty of it is tougher to pin down, and no explanation is really satisfying. MaggieB SpaceySteph The guy in the letter didnt either, even though i think she led him on. If you continue to use this site we will assume that you are happy with it. Never felt that way. I think shes pretty much screaming conform to sexual mores, CONFIRM her tone was a Also, plenty of adults make out. RedroverRedrover Actually, unpopular opinion, but I think the 36-question thing is a bad idea all around. September 5, 2017, 1:50 pm. Keeping that in mind, I can't say I look everyone in the eyes, but I have learned to keep my chin up. Oops. I think your leading on comment implies that heavily. When talking directly to someone, just leave it off. / Sign up for Verge Deals to get deals on products we've tested sent to your inbox daily. In the episode Who Killed 711?, a detective questions (according to the IMDb summary) a murder suspect played by character actor Burgess Meredith. There is zero reason to call a woman maam even if she is old. I'm female(a contralto) and was called "Sir", even after having given my name. If she was excited about seeing him again before he proposed going home together, she should go out with him again. September 5, 2017, 9:07 pm. Youre hung up on whats normal and what isnt, but the only person in this scenario who is acting in an atypical way is you. Maybe his question of going back to his place was just in the moment. What movie is I never said I was a nice guy the next words are yes sir or have you forgotten? September 5, 2017, 11:22 am. Suppose I had my sexuality surgically changed? Yes, sometimes people need more time to get over an ex. Like Why wouldnt he if things are getting a little steamy? Talk to him in person reassure him how much you like him, tell him that your heart is still a little raw from the guy who rejected you before him, and express your concern that be may still have feelings for his ex. Diablo Im with you up until your last sentence. I would get the idea that this woman was wanting my physical advances, sure. Simply asking is not. Whether thats a good thing or bad thing is a discussion for another day, but it is occurring. And reader, I married him. I moved on from that kind of talk when I was still in my teens. Now it's like it's a sarcastic way of saying "screw you, you're not the boss of me". !), Fifty Shades ended right after the films most brutal scene Christian (Jamie Dornan) repeatedly hit Anastasia (Dakota Johnson) with a belt as a punishment for doing basically nothing. (PS: she is also pretty feminist which is why i also find this kind of mindboggling, but idk how much it has to do with my particular pickle. It sounds a little funny when youre used to hearing sir and maam, but it works, and doesnt feel insulting. You wouldnt be able to answer that, I know. In this case, she went as far as she was comfortable. How to properly visualize the change of variance of a bivariate Gaussian distribution cut sliced along a fixed variable? We laughed but she was right. Theoretically Correct vs Practical Notation. September 5, 2017, 11:28 am. Dear Wendy September 16, 2019, 11:37 am. Because otherwise, im going to be forced to talk to this guy out loud in words. Directors Sam Taylor-Johnson Starring Dakota Johnson, Jamie Dornan, Jennifer Ehle. But that doesnt address the biggest issue for both Burkes Law and Apocalyptic Butterflies how many people watched either one? Thats fucked. September 5, 2017, 12:18 pm. Sign up for Verge Deals to get deals on products we've tested sent to your inbox daily. , , , , , , , , , ( ) , ( )?, ( ) , , ? Read some of the most popular Dear Wendy posts here. It's intended to be pronounced, because the important thing about it is that it is a mark at least of personal respect in speech, and in many circumstances, personal obeisance. Women should be able to clearly state what they want. September 5, 2017, 11:26 am. And maybe he just isnt a flirtatious person. Its super *nice* that he remembers details about you. "Its not your job to police the English language, but rather to go with the flow," Says the chief of the language police. I mean thats normal. Or being old? But a much closer version in fact, an almost verbatim one exists somewhere else. The woman can in no way say what she wants, because that is traditionally what they guy has to figure out, because ladies have to play hard to get and guys have to be able to just understand what the woman wants. 2. He may not even realize that hes doing it, but if he idealizes you, hell become very disappointed when he understands your faults and issues. He took it fine and we said our good nights. Not at all. A lot of this could be solved by communicating. Universal Pictures releases the film Valentines day 2018. Youre not like other girls is a big fat red flag. [yes mam]. He didnt cut her off mid-sentence to ask if she would take her pants off. I take it you don't want to be called Rando then? Thats so easy for you to say as a man in since sir is more age neutral. Other folks want to express ourselves in this sharp rhetorical manner because its respectful. Christian Grey : It means that I want you to willingly surrender yourself to me. If they set clear boundaries stating that they want to kiss or make out but go no further, they are a prude or they lead the guy on. nice guy. Sad state of affairs we live in today. "In short, calling someone sir or maam makes them feel old." It makes me question if he is really interested in me. Thats the beauty of it.. It can hurt more that unreciprocated feelings because its so frustrating to get close to finding what youre looking for only to have it be not quite right. What does Christian Grey to please you mean. They should not be labeled or ostracized for it either! How long does it take to rent Fifty Shades of grey? Did I come across like I would want to have sex with him on the second date (slash go over to his place)? A few forum posts claim that the phrases true source is unknown, but that it was popularized in the 2005 film adaptation of The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, well after it appeared online. Personally Ive never had a guy try to sleep with me on the second date, and if they had tried, I wouldnt have liked it. I said I didn't think it was a good idea. Dear Wendy I started out by saying that i went out of my way to notify her that she was cute as hell and regular flattery and then i told her that i had liked her since middle school and then she responded with a lot of "haha"s and "Thanks" but never really complimented me back or admitted that she liked me but she admitted that she knew that i liked her. but i the next words are yes sir or have you forgotten..? I will continue to use those for 3 reasons: 1) Respect 2) Manners 3) Because I actually get to know people and find out why they would take offense - it's usually in their facial expression. Sure, my immediate reaction was a bit offended, but I can certainly change my views, now understanding what may have been going on his mind. Watch popular content from the following creators: GlassPoopFace(@glasspoopface), river/gooby <3(@goobygobooba), Cerebro Grande(@b3v3r463), Ausfinestindian(@kierans6), Cerebro Grande(@b3v3r463), mr steal yo girl(@tiesareforpulling), . If someone is giving you respect appreciate it. This has to be your personal opinion. Just a simple yes sir, no sir/ yes maam, no maam , Antreal Allen (@Antreal_Allen) May 15, 2018. Its totally cool to say that youd like to take things slow and get to know one another before jumping into bed. While theres no mad scientist here, this is a direct match for the three iconic lines, with the exception of one missing it. For anyone whos seen the play, its a very likely candidate. If he had been aggressive about it or pouted when you said no, or if youd gone, and hed been aggressive then, then that would be bad. This is why I submitted my questionto get a barometer on what is normal or considered normal. Then, he asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. Too Much to Think about after a Second Date. I don't know many men name Darleen. Its always a risk when you allow yourself to like someone and pursue a relationship with him. About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Terms Privacy Policy & Safety How YouTube works Test new features Press Copyright Contact us Creators . To learn more, see our tips on writing great answers. The posts are remarkably confident, supposedly including direct transcripts of a very plausible exchange between two specific characters. I found it in 2006, quoted on my college boyfriends LiveJournal page. That just happens in dating. That place is a 1987 play called Apocalyptic Butterflies, a comedy about the tense relationship of a couple named Hank and Muriel Tater. Oh wait, no, thats not what happened. findingtheearth You can also find related words, phrases, and synonyms in the topics: Improve your vocabulary with English Vocabulary in Use from Cambridge.Learn the words you need to communicate with confidence. The LW might be from one of them. In anxiety. Rentals include 30 days to start watching this video and 24 hours to finish once started. September 5, 2017, 1:03 pm. September 5, 2017, 12:31 pm. Did they subconsciously remember someone else quoting a quip from a play? rev2023.3.1.43269. Yes there is. Since at least the late 1600s,maamhas been a contraction of madame, a formal address for a woman of superior social status. In the same sense that you cannot always determine gender by appearance alone. I wouldnt have considered it a red flag, because I understand that its pretty common now, but I still wouldnt have liked it. Juliecatherine, I absolutely agree with you. dinoceros Even when you find your right match, you can still get hurt, because were all human and we all say and do things that hurt the people we love. And until you meet the right match, you are probably going to date guys who are the wrong match for you. Connect and share knowledge within a single location that is structured and easy to search. Any second opinion that those words are somehow demeaning or something else is just hysteria. anonymousse Creeps me out. This is the kind of argument a dumb high school kid would make, not a grown adult who respects peoples personal boundaries. So to hear folks are getting offended by sir and madam just baffles me. That a guy might be interested in spending some more time with you? If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at wendy(AT)dearwendy.com. But theyre even more loosely connected than the Burkes Law scene. YOU become the person who hurts and rejects. So it would stand to reason that using the slang version, yessir, that logically it makes sense that it would be, if not derogatory, offensive or disrespectful in certain situations. For me, it wasnt. That shows normal interest in you. September 5, 2017, 10:27 am. They usually have some pretty serious issues. She lead me on. The quote in question, or a variation that flips the last two sentences, has been appearing on message boards since at least 2003. And not over texts! We've added a "Necessary cookies only" option to the cookie consent popup. Your goal is to find out what works wherever you are. Ha ha . LW2: I think youre jumping to conclusions. Learn more about Stack Overflow the company, and our products. How many guys would enjoy being told men are dumb, angry, and out to use you for sex in general, but youre different? Youre certainly judging this guy who not for nothing didnt pressure you, didnt kiss you on the first date, and immediately dropped the topic when you declined his invitation to go back to his place (which doesnt necessarily mean he was only interested in having sex with you. September 5, 2017, 11:17 am. And you know how that might be manifesting? One forum post suggests a radio DJ might have sampled the Burkes Law clip and given it wide exposure, but theres no evidence this happened. Whats more, men should be able to respect a womans boundaries without being punished for it! fine sir. Short of a major discovery, or someone coming forward and proving they created the whole thing as a joke, it may not ever be solved. Was that a harmless question? The answer is Skins! I mean, thats the beauty of it. So..I don't think you can gather much information from her calling you sir haha but good luck! Would the slang version, yessir, of yes, sir, be deemed as derogatory, offensive, or simply disrespectful to someone your senior? Just stop it. What movie is I never said I was a nice guy the next words are yes sir or have you forgotten? Because sometimes when a guy has asked me to go to his place, its been because theres nowhere else to go unless we want to eat another meal or sit outside in the dark for a while, or to make out. *swap* *swap* i nevew said i was a nice guy. Brenda Johnston quoted in Will McFadden, Atlanta Falcons. John Bender: Oh God, you richies are so smart, that's exactly why I'm not heavy into activities. LW2 To be honest Im not into that different from other girls because shes genuine thing. Its not a compliment. ele4phant Im looking forward to it and Im hoping to bring up My comfort level and see how reacts. Would the slang version, yessir, be deemed as derogatory, offensive, or simply disrespectful to someone your senior? I did reply to him and weve texted a bit since. Personally, theres no mystery behind where I first heard the exchange. Maddeningly (a guy in my theater full-on screamed, WHAT? Not Too Good To Be True. I dont think its meant to be used to help people get to know each other during dating. September 5, 2017, 10:25 am. Thank you Id like to take you up on your offer. PRETEND ITS A CLARINET #handsomesquidward#squidwardcosplay#clarinet#recorder, im terrorizing this sheep plushie until the day i die #obeymetiktok #obeyme #obeymemc #obeymeplush #fnaf #fnafplush #freddyfazbear #freddyplush #thirsttrap, Thank you guys for 300 followers! I guess you dont realize thats normal, but it is. I dont want to be called maam. The same issue can be said for women. Do we know for sure that he definitely meant sex? We didnt kiss on the first date, but during our second date, he kissed me by a secluded part of the lake and we kissed occasionally throughout the date, pretty tastefully, I guess no heavy PDA. How dare he suggest such a thing?, Janelle SpaceySteph September 6, 2017, 12:12 pm. Like, anxiety in the bedroom. To think that those words are disrespectful is to yield the irrational fear of losing ones youth. What is the punishment in 50 shades of GREY? Updates: Trying to Respect Boundaries Responds, When Do You Know Its Time to Break Up With Someone?, My Daughter is Trying to Ruin My Relationship. Watch popular content from the following creators: saga(@sagaslay), Cerebro Grande(@b3v3r463), Ruff(@daddy_shrekhot), gachagirl55644(@leafy361), 6slump (@rainwithfog), yummy children(@childrenarebettercrispy_), (@beuhrants), GlassPoopFace(@glasspoopface), . Our parents used it with their parents but did not teach us to use it with them. ( i will summarize the beginning) . "Yassuh, Massa!". He probably thinks that women are dumb or shallow or out to get you. He may not say no if you said yes, but he sounds like a really nice guy who listens and cares and wouldnt have expected that. I will be the first to admit that I am inexperienced in relationships. If she feel uncomfortable, so be it. And that can hurt. Suspicious referee report, are "suggested citations" from a paper mill? Im just thrown. Sir is more age neutral but I have also heard men saying it made them feel old. Youre both fine. It should no longer be used on phones for certain. Its great for you if you wish to use that lingo but not all of us do. But its also within the realm of normal to ratchet up physical intensity, so he wasnt out of bounds either. But RATHER that she led him on into thinking that she might have actually wanted sex. ), New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Would the reflected sun's radiation melt ice in LEO? yes sir *chuckles handsomely* good, now ass up baby gorl. Thats going to happen naturally. 1.2K views, 26 likes, 31 loves, 56 comments, 42 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Michael Mirdad: Humility versus Grandiosity -- Friday Night Spiritual. Usage explanations of natural written and spoken English. You'll either get corrected or ignored. And theres a real reason this guy could be feeling that. How can I explain to my manager that a project he wishes to undertake cannot be performed by the team? Maam and sir are the most common words folks say when addressing someone whos name they dont know or whos name eludes them. Its not an insult for him to think you might want to. The detective notes that the man is building a curious machine, which leads to the following exchange: Well, its my therapy. This is a bit different but I was offended today being called "Sir" over the phone. By clicking Post Your Answer, you agree to our terms of service, privacy policy and cookie policy. Get over it. As other people have said, its also really awkward to make out in public for any length of time. I mean, maybe its a red flag that hes not the right guy for her, but not a red flag that all he wants from her is sex. and I'm sorry but this is my personal opinion that if I'm using Sir for someone that means I'm calling a slave myself. 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